Friday, July 29, 2005

它是一条黑母牛,牛奶一样是白的

  珍妮是个总爱低着头的小女孩,她一直觉得自己长得不够漂亮。有一天,她到饰物店去买了只绿色蝴蝶结,店主不断赞美她戴上蝴蝶结挺漂亮,珍妮虽不信,但是挺高兴,不由昂起了头,急于让大家看看,出门与人撞了一下都没在意。

  珍妮走进教室,迎面碰上了她的老师,“珍妮,你昂起头来真美!”老师爱抚地拍拍她的肩说。

  那一天,她得到了许多人的赞美。她想一定是蝴蝶结的功劳,可往镜前一照,头上根本就没有蝴蝶结,一定是出饰物店时与人一碰弄丢了。

  自信原本就是一种美丽,而很多人却因为太在意外表而失去很多快乐。

  温馨提示:无论是贫穷还是富有,无论是貌若天仙,还是相貌平平,只要你昂起头来,快乐会使你变得可爱——人人都喜欢的那种可爱

Monday, July 25, 2005

生命的价值不要让昨日的沮丧令明天的梦想黯然失色!

在一次讨论会上,一位著名的演说家没讲一句开场白,手里却高举着一张20美元的钞票。

 面对会议室里的200个人,他问:“谁要这20美元?”一只只手举了起来。他接着说:“我打算把这20美元送给你们中的一位,但在这之前,请准许我做一件事。”他说着将钞票揉成一团,然后问:“谁还要?”仍有人举起手来。

 他又说:“那么,假如我这样做又会怎么样呢?”他把钞票扔到地上,又踏上一只脚,并且用脚碾它。尔后他拾起钞票,钞票已变得又脏又皱。
  “现在谁还要?”还是有人举起手来。
  “朋友们,你们已经上了一堂很有意义的课。无论我如何对待那张钞票,你们还是想要它,因为它并没贬值,它依旧值20美元。人生路上,我们会无数次被自己的决定或碰到的逆境击倒、欺凌甚至碾得粉身碎骨。我们觉得自己似乎一文不值。但无论发生什么,或将要发生什么,在上帝的眼中,你们永远不会丧失价值。在他看来,肮脏或洁净,衣着齐整或不齐整,你们依然是无价之宝。”


  温馨提示:生命的价值不依赖我们的所作所为,也不仰仗我们结交的人物,而是取决于我们本身!我们是独特的——永远不要忘记这一点!

Thursday, July 21, 2005

断箭不相信自己的意志,永远也做不成将军

 春秋战国时代,一位父亲和他的儿子出征打战。父亲已做了将军,儿子还只是马前卒。又一阵号角吹响,战鼓雷鸣了,父亲庄严地托起一个箭囊,其中插着一只箭。父亲郑重对儿子说:“这是家袭宝箭,配带身边,力量无穷,但千万不可抽出来。”

  那是一个极其精美的箭囊,厚牛皮打制,镶着幽幽泛光的铜边儿,再看露出的箭尾。一眼便能认定用上等的孔雀羽毛制作。儿子喜上眉梢,贪婪地推想箭杆、箭头的模样,耳旁仿佛嗖嗖地箭声掠过,敌方的主帅应声折马而毙。

  果然,配带宝箭的儿子英勇非凡,所向披靡。当鸣金收兵的号角吹响时,儿子再也禁不住得胜的豪气,完全背弃了父亲的叮嘱,强烈的欲望驱赶着他呼一声就拔出宝箭,试图看个究竟。骤然间他惊呆了。

  一只断箭,箭囊里装着一只折断的箭。

  我一直刳着只断箭打仗呢!儿子吓出了一身冷汗,仿佛顷刻间失去支柱的房子,轰然意志坍塌了。

  结果不言自明,儿子惨死于乱军之中。

  拂开蒙蒙的硝烟,父亲拣起那柄断箭,沉重地啐一口道:“不相信自己的意志,永远也做不成将军。”

  把胜败寄托在一只宝箭上,多么愚蠢,而当一个人把生命的核心与把柄交给别人,又多么危险!比如把希望寄托在儿女身上;把幸福寄托在丈夫身上;把生活保障寄托在单位身上……

温馨提示:自己才是一只箭,若要它坚韧,若要它锋利,若要它百步穿杨,百发百中,磨砺它,拯救它的都只能是自己。

Valuable Insight into DECISION MAKING

Which one will you choose?

A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in
use while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track,
the rest on the operational track. The train came, and you were just
beside the track interchange. You could make the train change its course
to the disused track and saved most of the kids.

However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused
track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?
Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could
make................

Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child.

You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way
initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only
one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and
emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play
on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a
safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends
who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office,
community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the
minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter
how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and
knowledgeable the minority are.

The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track
was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a
tear for him.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to
be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the
right one.


"Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular
isn't always right."

Wednesday, July 20, 2005

Charity Food Fair
















On 3rd July, JCI Bukit Mertajam organised a Charity Food Fair to raise some funds for below 3 Charity Organisation,
i) Pusat Harian Tunas Harapan PEKTAS
(Persatuan untuk kanak-kanak Terencat Akal (S.P.U.)
ii)Rumah Kesayangan
iii)Pusat Kebajikan Kanak-Kanak Cacat Yee Raan Jing Sheh

It been successfully raised RM 3,500 for each organisation. It been officially handover to them on 19th July, 8.30 pm. It withness by YB En. Lau Chiek Tuan, Penang State Executive Councillor.

Tuesday, July 12, 2005

Area of Opportunity

Junior Chamber can be called an organization of opportunities. The opportunities available within Junior Chamber are so numerous it could take a lifetime to grasp them all. Most members select those which cater to their particular needs and make the most of them.

Basically, there are four Areas of Opportunities within the organization: Individual, Community, International and Business. Projects are conducted in each Area. As the members work on these projects, they encounter opportunities for total development.

Individual - through various leadership training programs, members develop invaluable skills such as goal-setting, time management, public speaking, parliamentary procedure, protocols etc. thereby equipping them with necessary techniques to become future leaders of our community.


Community - through various community development programs, members identify social needs and issues, develop projects to improve the well-being of the community and thereby enhance awareness and sensitivity on community problems.


Internationalism - in our world, we realize the need for international collaboration, tolerance and peace. As JCI is a worldwide federation of more than 6,000 chapters which spans in 120+ nations and territories, we offer members numerous opportunities to understand and be involved in global issues. Through conferences, academies, programs, twinning (sister-chapter relationships), and business exchange, we enable to promote goodwill and attain a deeper understanding of the global challenges of tomorrow.

Business - members can pursue business interest through the Business Network at different levels in the organization meeting members from different industries and professional background.



Our Mission & Creed

Our Mission :


To contribute to the advancement of the Global community by providing the opportunity for young people to develop the leadership skills, social responsibility, entrepreneurship and fellowship necessary to create positive change.









We believe:


That faith in God gives meaning and purpose to human life;
That the brotherhood of man transcends the sovereignty of nations;
That economic justice can best be won by free men through free enterprise;
That government should be of laws rather than of men;
That earth's great treasure lies in human personality;
And that service to humanity is the best work of life.